Kamats in Korea 2004
Pictures and Stories from a Visit to Korea (Summer of 2004)
Anyong Haseyo -- Greetings from the Land of "Morning
by Vikas Kamat
Morning Calm and Indians
Long time ago an Indian philosopher (Tagore) went to Korea and described it as "The Land of Morning Calm". It has since become Korea's tagline.
I went to Korea in year 2004 and am describing it as a "Developed Nation". I have a firm belief that my characterization will also endure.
I have always wanted to visit Korea more as a student of nation-building (Korea emerged from ravages of foreign occupation and Korean War to become an industrial powerhouse) than as a son-in-law, and had eagerly looked forward to the trip.
Korea was not at all what I had anticipated (well, the part about population density and fermenting beans is true) and I had expected a nation and a society somewhere in-between India and in USA in terms of economic progress, technology, and traditional living. I had expected narrow roads and pollution. I had expected dog-meat, cheap merchandise, and an aging population. Wrong, wrong, wrong.
What I found was a remarkably green nation, a clean nation, and a spacious, multi-storied nation.
As a very beauty conscious nation (beauty is a big industry within Korea and I have heard that 20% of all Korean women have had cosmetic surgeries), I had expected goddesses and women with large busts. Wrong, wrong.
I found that Koreans have fondly and respectfully have preserved their heritage via food, traditional arts, and language. Above: Kim's parent's drawing room and below: Earthen pots used to ferment Kimchi (pickled cabbage that is an identity of Korea) and beans.
Public bathhouses are popular in Korea. It is a place you can relax in different kinds of saunas (herbal dips, hot and super-hot saunas, super-cold chambers, aqua-massages), workout, or play computer games. If you know how the body reacts to temperature, you could lose up to five pounds in a day by alternating between hot and cold treatments. Except that you have to be naked in front of strangers, it is quite a fun place.
What I didn't understand was, why is the guy who gives you a massage naked? (the barber wasn't naked).
Campaign and Sign-board Nation
Kim had told me that Korea was a "Campaign Nation". She was right -- there were campaigns everywhere. Some examples -- "Turn off your air-conditioning before leaving on vacation", "Separate your trash into following categories: Plastic, Glass, Paper, Edibles eatable by Pigs, and Other categories" and "Be sure not to include toothpicks with Piggy food" and "People with Etiquette Walk on the Left side of the Street"
Democracy at Grassroots
I was very impressed with what I could call micro-democracy in Korea. Every flat community has an association whose meetings are mandatory (there is a hefty penalty for not attending). During the meeting there is an agenda, discussion, voting, and immediate action is taken on the decisions. My in-laws went to two when we were there, during which they decided not to endorse the incumbent Mayor because he could not influence the Senate to spend enough money to build a facility of interest to the residents. Another item of discussion was to add a noise-silencer to the central vacuum cleaner that would have cost each of the resident $600.
My Mother in Law: "Wait a minute. Anyone here does not accept that USA is not an advanced nation? If not, let me tell you that when I visited my daughter, her vacuum made a big noise and disturbed the neighbors, but they were all civil and tolerated it. If Americans can tolerate noise, so can we." She said, the man who proposed the silencer was silenced and he withdrew his proposal.
I just thought that this institution of solving problems via neighborhood debates was wonderful.
Tennis on Mountaintop
We played Tennis on a red clay court situated on top of a mountain (in Korea everything is either top of a mountain or in the valley, as the nation is very mountainous). I'd never played on red clay and I found it extremely slow. The game itself was great in the backdrop of a ocean of sky-scrapers, and very foreign etiquettes -- examples: the eye-contact before serving is replaced by a bow to the opponent before every serve; they eat dried squid for refreshments. I also discovered that there are only two balls in a can; "Why do you need three?" --I was asked.
I had not carried my racquet with me and borrowed from my opponents. I broke two strings while playing (just a coincidence, I am not a power player), and earned the title "power player". After tennis we were treated to a four-nation seafood buffet (featuring seafood delicacies from China, Korea, Japan and Italy) that included shark fins, octopus, fish pizza and a hundred other items. At the restaurant, there was a dispute on who was the host (meaning who will pay for it) and several people fought to pay -- this part was just like India.
Jewelry for Cell Phone
I wonder how the Koreans lived without mobile phones. Known as hand-phones, everybody has them. They are also very advanced and even have a slot for jewelry. Known as Hand-phone Accessory, these are topics of great fascination within Korea. We brought some of them, only to discover that it is not compatible with our cell phones in USA.
In just the cell-phone hardware alone, Koreans have made a ten to twenty billion dollar investment (multiply population of Korea with the cost of a high end cell phone).
I love Korea because it is my wife's country. It was wonderful to visit the places where she grew up, the water ponds she fell into, and the spots she picnicked, and meet her friends (Koreans put friends on par with family members).
Ka-bob is not what you think
Nowhere in Korea I saw dog-meat sold or consumed. On the other hand I saw a lot of dogs as pets and dog grooming salons and pet-stores ("Pets Mart", some are called -- obviously a twist of PetSmart).
Ka-bob in Korean means dog-food Not "Dog as Food"! ( Kae=Dog, Bab=rice or food)
Add Korea to Make G-9
I think Korea is a highly developed nation using best practices in society, government, and engineering. I think it should be labeled as one rather than the stupid sounding "Developing Nation".
During the two weeks I did not encounter a single unpleasant incident -- on the contrary, everyone was very friendly and eager to talk to me to practice their English. When I took the underground metro without buying adequate ticket, (and could not exit), the official was most courteous and obliged my special request with a smile. The museums were either free, or inexpensive to enter. This is different from India where Indians pay one fee and Kim has to pay ten times that. (On the way back on the plane, I read that Bhutan, a very underdeveloped nation, charges $200 per day Foreigner's fee for every foreigner.) I opine that the way a foreigner is treated is a sure sign of a country's development.
Best of Korea
Worst of Korea
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